I froze in my tracks. I had been enjoying a perfect Chicago day. The sun was sparkling on the water, the perfect foil for Chicago’s renowned architectural skyline. Bearing down on me was a mass of intensely, hurried people. There was nowhere to go. I was jostled, shoved aside, and nearly trampled. The rush hour had begun, and I was on the reverse commute.
It was as if I didn’t exist. I was just an obstacle in the way of getting to work and appointments. I smiled, no response. Tension was etched on almost every persons face. They were already at work in their minds, anticipating and creating stress even before they were in the work environment, unaware of the sunshine.
They were oblivious to everyone and everything. Could they be walking next to a potential client, business partner, or someone with whom they could enjoy a laugh? They will never know; so oblivious to the world around them. They are the “walking dead.”
“Walking dead” are everywhere. They are not present in the moment. Instead, they are mentally on to the next task, the next event, focused on frustration, anger, and have too many things to do. You can find them in traffic, at the supermarket, and even in your living room. Do you know one?
What is the benefit of being disconnected? What is the price of stress? Starting now, pay attention to the world around you. You may notice a stunning sunrise, initiate a new deal, meet an interesting person, or enjoy some unexpected laughter. Your life will be the richer for it.
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March 13, 2013 at 8:25 am
Teri Latter
I suspect the real question is not do I know one of the Walking Dead, but am I one of the Walking Dead. Thank you for the reminder that head-down, anticipating what can happen next isn’t always the best way of living.
March 15, 2013 at 1:26 pm
wwhitso
Teri,
Thanks for stopping by. It isn’t always an easy choice, we all face challenges, but we do have a choice. It also leaves us open to find wonderful new things! Here’s to great things for you.
March 13, 2013 at 9:51 am
MaryEllen Roy
Did you write this about me? How I see myself in your descriptions. Especially … They were already at work in their minds … Thanks waking up this walking dead person.
March 14, 2013 at 6:41 am
wwhitso
Hi MaryEllen — So nice to hear from you! There is the walking dead in all of us…we just need a reminder once in awhile…Welcome back to the living : )
March 13, 2013 at 11:51 am
Lisa Aubin
Love this! Have you ever noticed how sometimes you smile at someone and they seem surprised? Then they smile, too, because they can’t help it. I like to think that it gets passed along as they continue on their way.
March 14, 2013 at 6:43 am
wwhitso
Lisa, Thanks for this! Yes, it is delightful to spark that unexpected return smile. Sometimes something that
simple can make the difference between a good day and a bad day! Please keep on smiling, we need more of those : )